Brian Howey: The beauty of democracy: Concessions of the vanquished


Across the Hoosier prairies, hills and hollers, as the cornfields morphed into city limits and neighborhoods, something beautiful occurred Tuesday, Nov. 7.

There were elections in more than 100 cities and towns. There were some 250 or so candidates for mayor from the Republican, Democratic, Libertarian parties, as well as some independents and write-ins. More than half of them lost.

And in nearly all the races that I’ve monitored, those candidates who came up short at the ballot box … conceded.

There were no charges of “rigged” or “stolen” elections. That’s because America’s election process worked. It did Tuesday with only a few hitches. Like it did in 2020 and 2016.

There is no sugarcoating an election loss. It stings. Or as Adlai Stevenson acknowledged after one of his two losses to Dwight Eisenhower, he quoted Abraham Lincoln who said, “He was too old to cry, but it hurt too much to laugh.”

In Carmel, Democrat Councilman Miles Nelson lost to Republican Sue Finkam 57-42%. When he conceded two hours after the polls closed, Nelson said, “Because of you, we have moved the needle in this community. We showed this community that a choice is good. This community is going to continue to be a phenomenal place to live.”

There was a much closer race in Fort Wayne, where Democratic Mayor Tom Henry narrowly defeated Councilman Tom Didier by just 1,700 votes.

About three hours after the polls closed, Didier called Henry to congratulate him on the win. Henry said that in turn he thanked Didier for a “spirited and professional” campaign. The two agreed to meet to discuss Didier’s ideas for the city in a future meeting.

“I worked tirelessly 16 hours every day working on this campaign for over two years,” Didier said. “I gave it my all. I have to accept it and move on.”

And then Didier turned up at Mayor Henry’s victory party, with WANE-TV capturing the moment where the vanquished Republican could be seen talking to the mayor’s wife Cindy, offering his congratulations and shaking her hand.

In Evansville, a century after Ku Klux Klan Grand Dragon D.C. Stephenson rose up from this city to lead a racist takeover of Indiana, voters on Tuesday elected Stephanie Terry the first Black woman as mayor.

“Honestly, it’s surreal. I never believed an African American could really be in this position,” Terry told WFIE-TV after she declared victory on a 49%-40% win over Republican Natalie Rascher, while Libertarian Michael Daugherty received 11% of the vote. “The fact is our city is ready to move forward; that this city really is for everyone and that we can be inclusive.”

Rascher told supporters, “It’s OK. It doesn’t matter what position you hold, to be a leader. And I know I will continue to be a leader in our community. I know all of these candidates over here will continue to be leaders in our community.”

Rascher told her supporters how important it is to lose gracefully. “My kids were sitting there,” she said. “I didn’t want them crying and upset, you know, you win some, you lose some.”

The late Kansas Republican U.S. Sen. Bob Dole said after he lost to President Bill Clinton, “Sure, losing an election hurts, but I’ve experienced worse. And at an age when every day is precious, brooding over what might have been is self-defeating. In conceding the 1996 election, I remarked that ‘tomorrow will be the first time in my life I don’t have anything to do.’ I was wrong. Seventy-two hours after conceding the election, I was swapping wisecracks with David Letterman on his late-night show.”

Across Indiana, the notion “rigged” elections and the cruelty of social media has sent a shiver through the process. There were almost 40 uncontested mayoral races this year, including cities like Kokomo, Jeffersonville, Hammond and Elkhart. Many of these cities had had competitive mayoral races in recent cycles.

I’ve been covering politics for 40 years, and I cannot recall this many uncontested mayoral races in a cycle.

Theatrics aside, Founding Father Thomas Jefferson once said, “We do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.”

Brian Howey is is managing editor of Howey Politics Indiana/State Affairs at, where this column was previously published. Find Howey on Facebook and Twitter @hwypol. Send comments to [email protected].

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